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Alena
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| Salute!!! How are you doing tonight?.
It s fairly unexpected to see your answer. You know, when I pressed the "SEND" button, sending my letter to you, I even exhaled!! You know I m not "Angelina Jolie" of course. Although, I am confident in myself in ordinary life. My birthday is April 4, 1978. My height is 5 4 ft. My weight is 132 lbs. I live in city Skopin, Ryazan Oblast, Russia. It is 280 km from Moscow. You can call me Alena. This is my name. Tell me about yourself. What kind of woman do you see next to you? |
| Hello Konstantin! How are you? I hope well. You know, I need an honest, open, kind, caring, trusting, thoughtful person next to me. If you do not find yourself here, then forgive me, I m headed the other way. I am tired of the attention of empty and deceitful people. I may be harsh, but I m not 20 years old and I don t have time to waste. I hope you understand me. I was brought up in a strict, intelligent family. My father was a military doctor, and my mother was a pediatrician. I studied at the Ryazan State Medical University named after academician I.P. Pavlov. I work now at the Skopinsky Interdistrict Medical Center. And my specialty is a laboratory doctor. A laboratory doctor is essentially a diagnostician. What result the attending physician will receive depends on my qualifications and, as a result, will help the clinician make the correct diagnosis and decide on the tactics of the chosen treatment path. My work is not visible at first glance: the patient does not see me, I do not communicate with the patient, I don’t give recommendations, I don’t comfort or alarm. But in fact, it depends on me what and how the attending physician will say to the patient during the round or during the consultative appointment, how he will reassure and what will alert him, what recommendations he will give for the future. I have not tired you with my story about my profession? Anyway, I want to start as friends, and then we ll see if our penpal friendship can move on to something bigger. Tell me about your profession in details. Can you use three adjectives to describe yourself? Just please, the first three adjectives that come to mind. Have a nice time! Take care, Alena |
| Hello Konstantin! How are you today? I feel good! I would say to myself that I am faithful, responsible, honest. I am very glad for your answer. And this is absolutely true, because I feel a certain connection already exists between us. Tell me if I chat a lot about myself. Apparently, this is from loneliness, I want to tell you a lot. The most important experience of this summer and autumn for me is working in the so-called "red zone" for patients with covid (I am adding here my photos of that time). The situation was and remains so sad that there is not enough staff and the doctor from the laboratory also had to work in the "red zone". This is terrible and it speaks of a difficult situation in medicine. I live alone in a private house and could return home in peace, because I could not infect anyone. I don t even have a pet because of my job. I have seen many tragedies and deaths while working with Covid patients. I saw how children see off their parents, sick covid and those with chronic diseases, as if on their last journey. And everyone around them understood that a certain person could no longer escape from the clutches of death. But I also saw a miracle. When completely hopeless patients recover completely from a huge percentage of lung damage. It is at such moments that you believe in the power of the human spirit! But I could not believe in the power of my state during this period ... I used to have thoughts of leaving my country, but this difficult year for humanity has put everything in its place completely. Of course, first I want to make sure that I’m expected there. And therefore our acquaintance and our communication will be an indicator for me. Men are the same all over the world, what do you think? I really hope this is not the case. You know, I was offered a marriage proposal here and it was more than once. But I never made hasty decisions and when I looked closely at a person, I saw all the traits of character and in many ways the first impression was always deceiving. I always refused, because I had the thought of moving in my head. I understand that I want to live and work next to my beloved man, but abroad. I still believe that I have a chance to be happy and make my man the happiest. I have a question for you. If you could remove one negative (if any) character trait and add one positive character trait, what would those traits be? Have you noticed how this world has changed because of Covid? I think that we will not be the same after this ...
I chatted again ... Thanks for your time. I m waiting for the answer |
| Hello Konstantin! Thank you for your answer! How are you today? I guess I tortured you with stories about my work? I decided today to add my "archival" photos to you when I was much younger than now. Hope you like it. I also decided to add you a photo of my whole family in general. There are uncles and aunts, also cousins. In the middle are my dad and mom. Unfortunately, they are no longer with me. This is one of the last photos with them. Exactly one year after this photo, they died from household gas poisoning. There was a domestic gas leak in our house at night. I was in Ryazan these days. I had refresher courses. And my destiny was not to be with them that night. It s terrible to remember ... I still cannot fully accept the fact that they are not here and sometimes talk about them in the present tense. You see the girl in the photo with me? Her name was Christina. She s gone too. This is my parents adopted daughter. My little sister. She, too, was in the house that night. I decided to share this with you because I had to tell you sooner or later about it. Now do you understand why I have nothing and no one except my work? These events radically changed my life. I sometimes look at photographs of that time and understand that even my sight has changed after that. And of course my character has changed too. There was a time when I completely closed in myself and could not think about anything but this. The worst thing is that at that moment there was not a person nearby who could support me and not leave me. Probably, it was in those moments that I realized what it means to be alone with a terrible problem and not find support nearby. I found the strength to get on my feet and continue living. Despite everything. Family has always been the most important thing for me. And everything changed fundamentally when the tragedy happened. I have absolutely nothing left but my work. It was work that saved me from harmful thoughts and actions. But after a while, the wounds on my heart healed and I understand that I need to live on and create my own family. Forgive me for such my life story. I decided to explain myself to you and open up completely so that you don t think that I am a grumpy nature. This is all due to the experiences and events that happened to me .. I heard somewhere that a strong woman ceases to be strong, only with a man she likes. Today, apparently, I showed weakness by telling you about my tragedy. Draw your own conclusions, my friend. Do you have a story that you would like to tell me? Maybe events that changed your outlook on life? I hope for your early reply. And don t forget add photos. Take care and be healthy |
| Hello Konstantin! How are you today? Thank you for opening up to me, supporting me. I feel your masculine wisdom and strength. You know, it was hard for me after I wrote to you yesterday, I looked at my family photos for a long time. I recalled one of my last conversations with my mother. She told me that she sees only a decent kind person next to me and age is not important. Father was 15 years older than mother. And she always looked at him with love and repeated to him that he was the best man on the planet. I looked at them and realized that I do not want a relationship if it is not similar to the relationship of my parents. Perhaps this role model of the family is now in my head. Apparently, that s why I was not successful in a relationship here, because local men only want to use a woman. They don t want responsibility and don t think about family. I do not want and do not see a local man next to me. And I don t see life in general in my country. I understand that I have no development here either as a person or as a doctor. I am purposeful and ambitious and want to live and work abroad. But the person next to me is very important . Otherwise, I don t see it. It was my purposefulness that allowed me to escape from bad thoughts at that time and I went to auto courses and learned how to drive a car. I took out a car loan and bought myself a Renault Sandero Stepway. I don t know if you have such cars in your country? I am sending you a photo. I learned how to drive a car with a manual transmission. And it became a hobby for me. It was difficult at first, of course. But my auto instructor once told me the phrase: "You don t need to worry, even bears in the circus ride motorcycles. You will definitely succeed." And I realized that I will definitely learn how to drive a car. This is a wonderful experience for me. I am very glad I did it. I talk a lot about myself again. Tell me more about the place where you live? What kind of cars are popular there? What are your favorite places? And please add more photos. I wish you a good day. Take care of yourself and be healthy |
| Hi Konstantin! How are you? As always, glad to your answer! Thank you for being with me, despite my difficult life story. That says a lot to me. I really appreciate this! You know, I really understand that the most important thing in life is the health of family. I sometimes do not understand people who complain about their life. I always say, "You have arms and legs, your relatives are alive and well! You have nothing to complain about! You just created these problems in your head!" Unfortunately, I do not yet have a person to whom I could give all my love. But I definitely want it. Do you understand me? I want female happiness. Simple family happiness next to my man ... I have all the prerequisites to be a good wife. I didn’t tell you that ethnically my dad was Russian and my mom was Georgian. Georgian are a proud Caucasian people. And I inherited a lot from her. Including the peculiarities of Georgian cuisine. I am sending you photos of the Georgian national dish "Khachapuri". I cooked this recently in honor of my mother s birthday ... I love to cook Georgian dishes. Is there a restaurant or cafe near you with Georgian cuisine? I know it is popular all over the world. Especially the best red wines there. But I liked different delicious cocktails and traditional Russian food more. What cuisine and drinks do you like the most? Are you ready to taste my cooking? You know, I think it s time to talk on the phone. I want to hear your voice. I hope you don t mind? If so, give me your phone number with your international country code. I don t want to be wrong. Can not wait for your reply. And remember that someone in Russia is thinking about you. Be healthy and take care. Alena |
| Hello Konstantin! How are you? I feel great when I see your answer! You know, it gets colder outside and I really want summer now! From our conversation about food and cooking, I thought about how our first dinner would look like .. Do you think we are ready for the first date? Do you have any surprises for me on the first date? Can I at least dream about it now. I imagine how we walk together, holding hands and just talking about everything. I want this to be a special evening for the two of us. I would really like a romantic dinner with soft melodic music. How do you see it? It is on such lonely cold days that such thoughts come to my mind. I really want romance and courtship! Sorry for the short letter today. A lot of work. Hope to see your description of our first meeting. I miss you already. Be healthy and take care!
Alena |