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Elena
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| Hello! How are you?
It s pretty unexpected to see your reaction. You know, when I pressed the "SEND" button, sending my letter to you, I even exhaled.! You know I m not Angelina Jolie of course. Although, I am confident in myself in ordinary life. My birthday is April 4, 1978. My height is 5 4 ft. My weight is 132 lbs. I live in city Skopin, Ryazan Oblast, Russia. It is about 280 km from capital Moscow. You can call me Elena. This is my name. I live in a work-home mode. What kind of woman do you see next to you? |
| Hello Simon! How are you? I hope well.
You know, I need an honest, open, kind, caring, trusting, thoughtful person next to me. If you do not find yourself here, then forgive me, I m headed the other way. I am tired of the attention of empty and deceitful people. I may be harsh, but I m not 20 years old and I don t have time to waste. I hope you understand me. I was brought up in a strict, intelligent family. My father was a military doctor, and my mother was a pediatrician. I studied at the Ryazan State Medical University named after academician I.P. Pavlov. I work now at the Skopinsky Interdistrict Medical Center. And my specialty is a laboratory doctor. A laboratory doctor is essentially a diagnostician. What result the attending physician will receive depends on my qualifications and, as a result, will help the clinician make the correct diagnosis and decide on the tactics of the chosen treatment path. My work is not visible at first glance: the patient does not see me, I do not communicate with the patient, I don’t give recommendations, I don’t comfort or alarm. But in fact, it depends on me what and how the attending physician will say to the patient during the round or during the consultative appointment, how he will reassure and what will alert him, what recommendations he will give for the future. I have not tired you with my story about my profession? Anyway, I want to start as friends, and then we ll see if our penpal friendship can move on to something bigger. Tell me about your profession in details. Can you use three adjectives to describe yourself? Just please, the first three adjectives that come to mind. Have a nice time! Thank you for attention, Elena |
| Hello Simon! How are you today?
I would say to myself that I am faithful, responsible, honest. I am very glad for your answer. And this is absolutely true, because I feel a certain connection already exists between us. Tell me if I chat a lot about myself. Apparently, this is from loneliness, I want to tell you a lot. The most important experience of this summer and autumn for me is working in the so-called "red zone" for patients with covid (I am adding here my photos of that time). The situation was and remains so sad that there is not enough staff and the doctor from the laboratory also had to work in the "red zone". This is terrible and it speaks of a difficult situation in medicine. I live alone in a private house and could return home in peace, because I could not infect anyone. I don t even have a pet because of my job. I have seen many tragedies and deaths while working with Covid patients. I saw how children see off their parents, sick covid and those with chronic diseases, as if on their last journey. And everyone around them understood that a certain person could no longer escape from the clutches of death. But I also saw a miracle. When completely hopeless patients recover completely from a huge percentage of lung damage. It is at such moments that you believe in the power of the human spirit! But I could not believe in the power of my state during this period.. I used to have thoughts of leaving my country, but this difficult year for humanity has put everything in its place completely. Of course, first I want to make sure that they will definitely wait for me there. And therefore our acquaintance and our communication will be an indicator for me. Men are the same all over the world, what do you think? I really hope this is not the case. You know, I was offered a marriage proposal here and it was more than once. But I never made hasty decisions and when I looked closely at a person, I saw all the traits of character and in many ways the first impression was always deceiving. I always refused, because I had the thought of moving in my head. I understand that I want to live and work next to my beloved man, but abroad. I still believe that I have a chance to be happy and make my man the happiest. I have a question for you. If you could remove one negative (if any) character trait and add one positive character trait, what would those traits be? Have you noticed how this world has changed because of Covid? I think that we will not be the same after this... I chatted again.. Thanks for your time. I m waiting for the answer. |
| Hello Simon! Thank you for your answer! How are you today?
I guess I tortured you with stories about my work? I decided today to add my "archival" photos to you when I was much younger than now. Hope you like it. I also decided to add you a photo of my whole family in general. There are uncles and aunts, also cousins. In the middle are my dad and mom. Unfortunately, they are no longer with me. This is one of the last photos with them. Exactly one year after this photo, they died from household gas poisoning. There was a domestic gas leak in our house at night. I was in Ryazan these days. I had refresher courses. And my destiny was not to be with them that night. It s terrible to remember... I still cannot fully accept the fact that they are not here and sometimes talk about them in the present tense. You see the girl in the photo with me? Her name was Christina. She s gone too. This is my parents adopted daughter. My little sister. She, too, was in the house that night. I decided to share this with you because I had to tell you sooner or later about it. Now do you understand why I have nothing and no one except my work? These events radically changed my life. I sometimes look at photographs of that time and understand that even my sight has changed after that. And of course my character has changed too. There was a time when I completely closed in myself and could not think about anything but this. The worst thing is that at that moment there was not a person nearby who could support me and not leave me. Probably, it was in those moments that I realized what it means to be alone with a terrible problem and not find support nearby. I found the strength to get on my feet and continue living. Despite everything. Family has always been the most important thing for me. And everything changed fundamentally when the tragedy happened. I have absolutely nothing left but my work. It was work that saved me from harmful thoughts and actions. But after a while, the wounds on my heart healed and I understand that I need to live on and create my own family. Forgive me for such my life story. I decided to explain myself to you and open up completely so that you don t think that I am a grumpy nature. This is all due to the experiences and events that happened to me.. I heard somewhere that a strong woman ceases to be strong, only with a man she likes. Today, apparently, I showed weakness by telling you about my tragedy. Draw your own conclusions, my friend. Do you have a story that you would like to tell me? Maybe events that changed your outlook on life? I hope for your early reply. And don t forget add photos. Take care and be healthy. Elena |