Der Vorgang 25258
irina.93lubimka@gmail.com
Irina
Der erste Kontakt 25258
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| Hi ! How are you? How is your mood? I hope you are all well and you
didn t answer me because you were too busy. You seem to me very interesting and good man. Very willing to continue communication with you. Please send me an email and I will answer you. I wish you good mood. Irina |
| Hello xxx !!! Thank you for your new letter!!! I am glad that our
communication continues and I can see your email when I have a break at work!! Thank you for showing me in this way that you are interested in our communication. I really appreciate it! xxx , so, in my previous letter I promised you to write more about my family and my Ukrainian roots. I only managed to write that I have a mother and a sister. But this is not quite true. I also have a nephew and a niece. )) These are my older sister s children! Yes, I don t have a father, because he left my mom, me and my sister more than 20 years ago. I was 8 years old at the time, and my sister was 11 years old. Our mother raised us alone. It is important to say that my mother herself is from Kiev (Ukraine.) My father is from Lviv (Ukraine.) They met in Kiev! In 1987 they got married and the Communist Party sent my father here to the Kyrgyz Republic to work on a collective farm. My father was a tractor driver. Our mother worked as a milkmaid at a dairy farm in our village. She got up at 3:30 AM in the morning, had breakfast and went to milk the cows. She would come back at about 7:00 AM in the morning, wake me and my sister up so that we would get ready for school. My mom never had any free time, but at the same time I always knew that she loved me and my sister. My sister was my mom in many ways, because my mom worked hard to raise us alone. I am very lucky with my sister. Usually children in the family often argue over toys or some other reasons, but my sister never offended me. She always braided my braids when we were going to kindergarten. )) It was so sweet that even now I m writing to you about it and smiling. She still lives with her mom, despite the fact that she is already married! It s just a pity that she s not very lucky with her husband either. Her husband often drinks alcohol in large quantities. He even hit her a couple of times in the past, but my sister didn t find the strength to leave him and start a new life. I don t blame her for that. It s her choice, but I can admit that their relationship is one of the reasons why I don t want to build a relationship with a local man!! And, of course, the example of my father, when he abandoned my mother with two small children, left an indelible impression in my heart! Is it possible that local men lack a special gene that is responsible for family values?? I don t know this for sure, but I can say that my mother and sister are wonderful women who appreciate such a thing as a family hearth and, of course, they deserve more happiness! It s just a pity that in the countries of the former USSR there are hundreds of thousands of similar examples when men leave their wives and children. Moreover, there are those men who beat not only their wives, but also children!!! This is terrible!!! And the terrible thing is that the laws of my country do not always protect the rights of women who are subjected to violence, which is probably why men here feel too unpunished. Personally, I don t want to suffer from the man I love. I want a happy relationship where a man and a woman respect and appreciate each other s arcs. I want me and my man to please each other in everything. After all, it s so nice when a man can just give flowers to his beloved woman. And a woman can arrange a romantic dinner without any reason. Do you agree with me?? I think happiness is in the little things. I wake up in the morning and go to the window first thing. I open the curtains and let the light into my apartment. I rejoice in that sunny bunny, which is reflected from my mirror, jumps on my pillow. Then I go to this very mirror, look at my reflection and smile to myself!! I say out loud to myself: "Good morning, Irina!!!" No, no, I m not crazy.))) Of course, I live alone in my apartment and I don t have enough loving man around, but I m not crazy. xxx , if it s not difficult for you, then please try to start your morning by wishing you a good day and smiling at your reflection. You will see that your day will be more pleasant than ever. This is a very simple secret of how to make yourself happier. My mother taught me this from the very childhood. As I told you, my mom didn t have a simple life, but she was always smiling. She never gave up, and she taught me to look at life positively!! xxx , now I have to apologize, because unfortunately I can t continue my story about my family now. My break is over and I have to work! I will continue my story about this in my next letter. I will also try to tell you a little more about my childhood and youth. I wish you a good day. Today I am sending you a photo with my sister and nephew. We are not too similar with my sister, because I look more like mom. My sister is more like my father. Irina PS: I really hope that you send me your photo in the next letter!!! |