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christophertoconnell@aol.com
Christopher
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| Dear xxxxx,
Good evening to you. I took my time to write you this evening as it is very necessary to write to you more about myself so you have a general idea about MYSELF before we get to chat more and then you can ask whatever you wish to, I believe Impossible is Nothing.. Here s my Life so far, (summarized into one e-mail) I think one of the hardest things in life is to actually sit down and write about you. But this happens to be a road I have to pass to actually get to know you. I was born in a small town in Frankfurt Germany, to a German Father and an American Mother my father was an Engineer and my mother was a nurse. I am the First of 2, I have a younger sister who lives in Netherlands with her family, I go to visit her from time to time. While i was growing up i had some of my education in Canada, my sister left Canada for Netherlands when she was 18 and made it her home. My parents divorced when I was 20 and my mother re-married and now lives in Spain with her hubby My father died a couple of years ago and he still leaves an impressive memory in my heart, I have understanding and big heart for those who are less fortunate in life (that comes from my father). Age: 30-60 I got married when I was 25 , She was a was an accountant and I was into Architectural designs and a builder, we both worked in Europe the pay was good and it was worth it. I worked there for more than 20 years, a good number of my colleagues were foreigners from different parts of the world, and some had their family with them, while some had their family in their own country. I was lucky to have my wife right beside me, we both worked with the same company even though our jobs were not closely related. We could only have one daughter whose name was Gloria unfortunately i lost her 6 years back on a car accident but was lucky that she give birth to my grand son whose name is Joshua. Like i said before I left the Job some years ago to baby sit my wife who was diagnosed of Ovarian Cancer, it was a very hard time of my life and i had to be there for her. Hmm, what else can I say? Lost my wife in summer 06 and at first I didn t believe that I had lost one woman who I was so used to so I wasn t ready to get involved again until it became too much I decided to start all over again so I moved back to Canada in the same year, flew in and out of the country trying to close foreign businesses and ties all throughout the rest of 07,08 and 09 but since Oct 10 I ve been quite stable and decided to settle down in NY after some trips there with my close associate who passed away too some years ago, although I have been out for just very short trips, terrible period of my life too ha-ha! Now I can laugh about it all- everything started dwindling when I decided to settle in CAL shortly after I arrived. So now am Into Real Estate Acquisition, development and sales of properties as well as into building and construction) a fulfilled life you would call mine? YES/NO- well that depends but I still think I must meet one person who would turn my life around for the second time and give me another reason to feel even better than I ever have been with myself, you know that feeling of adding meaning to once life? I am a man of principles and I believe in so many things others don t ,WHAT MATTERS IS HAVING OUR MINDS IN TUNE WITH ONE ANOTHER, never follow the crowd as I like to be a leader and have a mind of my own, I put in all my best to break barriers that s why I decided this year to go on the site in search of my love ,so many people have found true love here online, compared to back in the days where we have to go to bars, pubs to meet someone, now you can do that right from the center of your living room. I am ready to meet a new person who will make me feel what love is all again, and I am ready to go an extra mile in search of that infinite love which I know exists DISTANCE, RELIGION, and ETHNIC TRIBE. Anything is not a barrier for me in search of a good relationship. I am critical and brave to state my opinion without fear and I stand by my words. I am not an authoritarian and I don t respect anybody who doesn t deserve it, I believe a relationship works well when there is a good understanding and communication which is the basic and major key to a successful relationship. I don t have a very good tolerance for stupidity but at the same time I am ready to fall stupidly in love with the right woman. I am a very optimistic person and I believe there is no word like impossible, everything is possible if you put your mind to it .I have been through a lot in life and I have learned to be the rock for my partner. I believe a relationship should be banded with love and truthfulness. I have not been in much relationships in my life but I have been in a real one which lasted long enough until death came in, I am not perfect and I am not interested in a lady who is perfect, I am just looking for the right match for me, I know and I believe that there is a lady for Every man within his reach and also vice versa. I like to play pool (billiards) I like singing songs with the Karaoke machine, I like dancing, I like to cook, I like all kinds of sports and watching then on TV and I like all kinds of music I like all kinds of movies, I like anything and everything that has to do with the outdoors and indoors too, I like going to live concerts and sporting events. Also chill and have a cup of coffee, I have a great sense of humor and I believe my partner should have too. While I wouldn t be pushy, I think its necessary that we get to know each other a little better before going on to the next level of meeting up, the good old coffee or bar way is nice but I would suggest that we take things slowly. Hmm, never thought I could write such a long e-mail, I m not a long writer I try to summarize and keep it short- as brief as it can ever be so don t expect me writing you long e-mails in the future- only short e-mails with a true element matters to me. At this point I feel I m starting to bore you with stories about me so I d save the others until you ask, it ll be good to read more about you too if you have more to share. Cheers xxxxxer. |