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eva_113@mail.ru
Eva
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| Hello xxx,
thanks for your warm long letter. I have never received such nice letter - I see you are a very kind and honest man. And I am not still run away. I thought about your words all this evening - it is not very easy for me to make such serious decision about my life, but I try to do it. Now I explain my words : I m single during some last years. When my both children were a little girl and a little boy I tried to give them all my time and all my forces. Besides I was working - I have a serious job. So I had no time to look for husband for me. In my country it s impossible to start a new family having two teenage children ( or maybe I had no time or I was unlucky in it ) - but I m still single woman. Or maybe I m too serious & cannot allow myself to do stupid things? I don t know... I never asked somebody to help me. I never complained about my hard life. I worked hard to give my children a chance to study and to live in Moscow, but I m so tired to be alone. Now my daughter and my son are almost adults, they live in another town, they have their own lifes. I feel myself so alone as never before. So I try to find another solution. I was registed on this dating site because I want to meet a real man for me . I live in a simple and a sample life, I have no bad habits ( I hope ) . I want to get married and to start again with the only my man. I am thinking about relocation to another country. Of course I m very afraid. It was hard decision but I try to have a chance with a right man. If I seem for you being very stupid or scatterbrained...let it be so. But I want to make the first step to my lucky life. I m a monogamous nature, oriented on a family. And I would like get the same character from my future husband. I wish to be happy, to love and to be loved - to share with him the rest of our life. It is not very much, isn t it? But at the same time I have my own problem. I m still helping for my "babies" - I m still sending a money to them to Moscow for their food and clothes - as they are not quite adults now and cannot work. They are both students and must study almost all the day. I cannot let them to be hungry. Now enough about my problems. Let s talk about other things . It s very well you like to ride by bike, because this is my favorite sport too . Besides I like to swim, to play tennis, voleyball, and I like long walks (when the weather is good ). And I like good music. It s a pity I cannot play any music, but my daughter can play piano. Now she plays in a metall rock band (the keyboards or electropiano) and sometimes they take part in a student s concerts. I like to read books too - especially through the cold long winter evenings, when the wind is blows to the windows. I like to sit in a big armchair with a vase with fruits on the little table and to read interesting book. Also I like to cook and to learn another culture. For me there is nothing better than a good dinner (of course mediterranean cuisine!), a glass of a good wine and an interesting conversation between friends…Or to have a romantic dinner with the candles...Or at night laying down the sofa watching a DVD together while it rains outside… Please don t laugh at me too loudly, ok? Sometimes I m a bit "crazy" - I like to laugh and to feel myself as a little child - but it happens very-very rarely ( only on the sunlight sea... ) It was a joke - mostly I m serious and very-very quarrelsome Old Lady - it s a joke again. It s very hard for me to describe myself ... I can t be objective - it s impossible. That s all about me - Are you already tired to read it? I sent you some my last photos - I hope to change them on another yours, ok? I hope you ll have a nice weekend. Eva P.S. Your English is some more better than mine - I was forced to ask GOOGLE to help me with a bit unknown to me words. Your grammar is nice too. P.P.S. Unfortunately I don t know German - we must communicate to each other on the not our both native language...if we could have a chance to meet? |
| Hello xxx,
thanks for your mail. I shall try to answer all your questions, though sometimes it is not so easy for me... At first, I m afraid that you think about me as well as I m a lazy slothful girl lying on the sofa all the days and evenings with a lot of sweets in my mouth...but it is a myth. This is not my way of life. I try to explain now. When my kids were small they were needed in me all my leisure time. But after their both falling asleep I could not allow for me to have a rest because I tried to get the additional job from my work ( as my payment was small, not quite enough for me and for my family ). I had to done it till half of a night and on the weekend too. Sometimes I was so tired that cannot eat and slept very bad... From that hard time I have "a strange dreams" in my head - a long lasting evenings WITHOUT ANY JOB - only with a book or DVD and probably with a vase of fruits ( I like various fruits very much! ). Is it too horrible? Or strange? Now I m resting at home almost all the evenings ( after finishing the necessary homework such as cooking, cleaning, washing and so on ). I have "a lazy" time, I have my book, my vase, but I have no a lovely person to share all these long lasting evenings or to enjoy together. It is true. Please don t laugh at me. It hurts. Of course, I have my mother ( she is 70 years old now, we live together in the little flat ). I m very pity I have no any brother or sister, have you them or not? And of course I have a few real friends. But they have their own families, their own problems, their own kids, their own lifes. Of course sometimes we can meet together with, but not very often. But it is life... And as you said in previous letter I can only two ways : or accept this life or try to change it. I decided to choose the second. At second, now about our "future kids" as you named them. A few years ago when my own children become teenagers I often "catches myself" on the strange wishing to have a yet one little baby ( not important son or daughter ). I was still young then ( 37-38 ). I dreamed to care about somebody, to have my own little baby near my heart. But now I understand that maybe it will be a great mistake : I am not young already ( I m still 42 now, but tomorrow !!! I will be 43 ). I m afraid that I m not so healthy and don t want to risk... An old mother is not a most best choice for any baby... you are right. Besides, my daughter is married in the last august and maybe I will be a granny in one or two years ;-) At third, you wrote that you are enjoying your life in a house now, isn t it? You do only what you want, you have your own habits and maybe your own caprices. It s so normal for any normal person. But !!! I have my own habits too and of course I have my own caprices too - not much but I have ;-). Can you accept me as a equal person in your little castle, not as a domestic servant? Of course, I can do any home work, I often doing it at home, this is no problems for me. But I only try to ask if you able to be patient with me - because I have another culture, another mentality, another habits than yours - are you really understand what I try to talking about? You must to think about my words very seriously and only then answer me, ok? It is very important point for me. And of course me must try to meet at first - as soon as it possible ( nobody wants to buy "a cat in a bag") . Ah, I ve forgotten to say that I have a weak eyes and had to wear glasses ( but only at home ), outdoors I usually wear my mild contact lenses. Maybe this fact is needs for you - I don t know exactly. And now the easiest part of my mail - about my photos : you are right, one of them ( with my both kids ) was made for more than 2,5 years ago - in the August of 2008 - when we have a trip to Italy ( a beautiful country for holidays!!! ) Another one of them ( in a little black dress on the sofa with a group of my "toy kids") was made in November 2010 on my Mother s 70-th birthday ( I was some ill and tired then ) - and seems too older than usually . The photo in a golden dress with an umbrella was made on the 13-th of August 2010( Friday !!! ) - my daughter married that day. The rest photos were made in the end of August 2010 - me and my son were spent our summer holidays in Greece, Crete island (nice place !!!). The last photo is from the Greece too. Please answer my upper question. You may ask me about everything in my life - don t be shy please. The best wishes from Russia, Eva |
| Hello dear xxx,
thanks for congratulations. Now I feel myself more happy than a few days ago - because of you! I thought about your last letter ( you must read "about us" ) the whole day. And I mean I must tell you one very important message : in ten days I ll get my two weeks of holidays. I decided to spend my free days in Europe. I thought very thoroughly and chose the Netherlands. Further - one month ago I sent the necessary documents to the Visa Center of Netherlands in Moscow for Schengen visa. And now I m waiting for results. But !!! I plan to travel not alone ( because I m afraid !!! , I have never before journeyed alone ). Few months ago I placed an advertisement on the travel site & my travel companion was found. He is a young fellow, 28 years old, my ex-countryman, he lives in Netherlands during the last 17 years. He offers to be for me as a guide and as a "security" while my staying in his country. At the same time I must try to better his russian language, as he started to forget his native language. Besides we contracted that we can be the only friends - it was the first point of our agreement. So I agreed to travel together. I booked a single room a hotel "Hostellerie Rozenhof" in Nijmegen - not far from Germany s border. I plan to stay in the Holland during two weeks (from the 21 of April till the 5 of May). We plan to take part in the Queen s Birthday show ( on the 30 of April ), also we want to visit Amsterdam, Rotterdam, Den Haag, Maastricht, also Antwerpen in Belgium & Koeln in Germany. I want to look at the Koeln s Cathedral (Dom). I suppose that Koeln is not far from Duesseldorf, isn t it? So we can meet ( if you wish of course ). I hope I m a successful lady - I want to receive my Schengen visa. Now I must finish. I m looking for your next mail. Regards, Eva. |
| Good evening xxx,
I hope you are well. Excuse me for the long lasting waiting of e-mail. I was bit ill yesterday because of our bad weather - it s half rain / half snow - it is the worst weather for me. I don t like such weather, my poor head was hurted yesterday. My documents must arrive to my town in the end of current week. I hope I m a lucky person - it s my time to be lucky !!! Thanks for comparing me with a sun - but I m not so shiny and not so brightly ( and not so hot ) - although I try be such (especially for you...) I think it ll be wonderful to meet at the first saturday of my staying in Netherlands ( on the 23 of april ). Have you a weekends? If not we can change a date. Can we meet in Nijmegen early in the morning (after breakfast). If it is impossible for you to arrive to my hotel "Hostellerie Rozenhof" you must write me. We have a time to choose another way of our meeting. We would have a long exciting day to travel to any place - in Koeln for example. I like you idea about our climbing to the top of Koeln s Cathedral - it s a greatest, a most wonderful idea!!! And I hope you will have some time to show me your native town Duesseldorf - this town is in the list of the 10 the most greatest towns in the whole world !!! Did you ever known about it early? Now you know ))). I really must arrive to airport Schiphol. My traveller companion must meet me there and to transfer to the hotel (he promised to do it at least). Don t worry about it. Please dont think about me as I am a scatterbrained or some crazy - that fellow is really only a companion, not more. You must trust me because I m not a liar. I m very serious and romantic, I never do stupid things - you will see it while our meeting. I must be sure about my own safety - it is the first and the very important point for me. Besides if you ll dislike me you must tell me about it immediately. You must promise it to me. Thanks if you agree. I m thinking about my travelling and about meeting with you too much - I m really becomes "crazy" sometimes. Have you the same feelings that mine? It seems to me while reading your emails that we are like a twins. Bye xxx, hope to write from you soon. Eva |
| Good evening xxx,
hope you are well. I still don t know an answer from Visa Center, but tomorrow I plan to start to pack my luggage. I hope to be lucky. It s a pity that you are busy in the next weekend . But of course I am forgive you - you promised this trip to your friends more earlier, you gave your word, so you cannot deceive them all. And I wish you a nice Eastern holidays. Besides my arriving was unexpected for you, isn t it? Sometimes our meeting seems to me unbelievable too. But we must to try. I often think about you. And this is not an empty words. Are you working all the week from Tuesday till Friday? I think in the evenings you will be tired a bit, as you had to work on the next day. And Friday is a more shorter working day, is it so ? Let s meet in Friday in Nijmegen. Can you? Have a good rest. Reply me please. Eva P.S. I like your last phrase about "our world". |
| Good evening xxx,
I want to say : Yes, I want to meet you as soon as possible! Of course I ll wait in this time - 03.00 o clock p.m. in Friday, 29-th of April, in front of the hotel "Hostellerie Rozenhof". My phone number in the trip will be such +79197253760 ( normally in my country I have another number, this one is only abroad ). I am very glad that you have your own garden. My mother have a little garden too ( without house ), she lives and works in it from May till September. Her garden is very far from the place I live, so I cannot help her every day, only on Saturday or Sunday. Usually I get there by bike, I like to help my mother in the garden. We often make a bbq with my kids. Do you like bbq or not? In any case I d like to share with you all your garden s cares. I like to move too, especially in summer ( without a lot of clothes ) and in the warm autumn. Our own vegetables and fruits will be the tastiest for our family, I know it. My mother often do the frozen vegetables and we are eating our harvest during the long-long winter time. Today I tried to know about my visa - documents are still "in the way" ( our country is so large !!! ). In monday I will contact with a manager of my travel agency. I m still hope to be lucky . But now I must go to bed, so as tomorrow is the working day for me. Bye xxx, I shall think about "us". Eva P.S. And what about our climbing on the top of Cologne s Cathedral? It was an excellent idea.. |
| Dear xxx,
how are you? I have A VERY BRILLIANT NEWS - I ve got a Schengen visa!!! Nobody knows my feelings...I m so happy! Besides it was not very easy. Are you happy with me too? Now it is left not more than 11 days till our meeting. It happens so soon that I cannot beleive in it. It s like a fairy tale...The only ten days ago I didn t know about your existance, isn t it? And soon we ll walk together in the foreign for me and for you country - in the Netherlands!!! Wow!!! I m really lucky person ( as well as you ))). So in Friday, April, 29 I ll wait you in front of my hotel. Your plan about our weekend is wonderful! I like it. But !!! we have a little problem in it. A few days ago I ve written you that I want to take part in a show Konninginnedag - the Queen s Birthday - on the 30-th of April - the second day of our meeting with you. One month or some more ago I promised my travel companion - his name is Armand - to be together on the Queen s show in the town Weert. I gave my word and I cannot take it back. Now I hope you forgive me...Thanks. But I shall try to talk with him about our meeting. Maybe I ll cancel a show. If it will be possible, we would be able to follow your exciting plan. We can look at the highest Cologne Cathedral, to climb on it s top, to walk on the bank of Rhein, to talk about everything and so on... Later in the evening we can return to your native town Duesseldorf. Is it really possible? Hope to see you soon ( I feel it will be our great day!). Now I say goodbye. I had to repack my baggage. I wish you a good evening. Eva |
| Hallo, dear xxx,
I m very happy too ))). Your new plan is very exciting - it is more better than previous. I like it. I can agree with any point of your letter ( including my staying in your home ). I don t know why but I feel I can trust you. I see you a really Gentleman. And at the same time you can trust me too - I m dangerous not for you, not for your house. I am a very peaceful person. I m not a terrorist of course))) and I promise to be a very polite guest. On the tomorrow evening after work I must start to drive by bus to the town Chelyabinsk, then in the early morning I must fly by plane to Moscow, and after again by plane to Amsterdam in midday. Armand will meet me in airport and make a transfer to Nijmegen to my hotel. So I plan to arrive in my hotel to the 3-00 p.m ( I hope ). Thus I shall left in the road approximately only the one day ( 23 hours ). For my the most largest country it is not too much ))). Don t worry about Armand - he lives in Netherlands not far from Nijmegen ( village Overasselt ). We decide that as usual he will takes me almost every morning from my hotel to visit various towns and interesting places of his country. In the every evening he must return me back to the hotel"Hostellerie Rozenhof". Now I say goodbye - sorry but I must finish with my baggage. Hope you have an exellent holidays for Eastern. I wish you a very good weather. See you soon. Eva |
| Dear xxx,
how are you? I ve read your last email, but I have almost no time to answer, excuse me please . Now I know your personal phone number, thanks. But we can communicate in the old way while your staying at home, as I plan to take my laptop in my hand luggage. In my hotel I can use WiFi communication ( free ). In one and half of an hour I must to start my travelling to the Netherlands. So I say you goodbye and I hope to see you soon in Nijmegen. Take care of yourself in your little trip, to the south of Germany, please. Regards, Eva |
| Hello dear xxx,
I hope your Eastern trip is well and you are not very tired as a driver. Today was my first full day in Netherlands. Yesterday I was so tired in my long-long road and I fall asleep very early. My private hotel is old, my room is too small, but I like it - it is clean and with a lot of light. You will see my room if you wish. Today we visited Arnhem and the ZOO - we saw many various animals. Tomorrow we plan to go to Amsterdam, to sail by the tourist ship along the channels. I often think about our future meeting. How it will be? I m some excited about it.  I hope all your friends are well and your holydays are nice. Hope to see you soon. Eva  |
| Hallo, dear xxx,
I m glad you are well now and healthy. You was silent these days, so I began to think that you are some afraid of going forward with me and that you decided to return back. Now I see it is not so. Thanks. It gives a chance for us. I m fine in Netherlands. I have had a very interesting week, the weather was beutiful all the time ( special for me ). But today I stayed at home ( at hotel ) because of rain, I decided to have some rest. Are your plans staying the same? I will meet you in front of my hotel on Friday in 3-00 p.m. (can you give me a calling after arriving? I don t answer, but I will be knowing that you are here ). Thanks. That ll be nice. Now I had to run away for some dinner, it becomes late. Have a good night, have a good rest. Hope to see you soon. Eva |
| Dear xxx,
thanks for your reply ))) It is too late now, so I ll be short. Besides, I am not sure if you will be able to read this mail tonight, I think now you are sleeping and tomorrow you ll be working. I only want to tell you that all our plans are the same and I ll be waiting for you tomorrow. And I am as a teenager girl too))). Tomorrow is a hard day for both of us, so there is always afraid to start. But I hope that we are both a very lucky persons. Good night xxx, sleep well. Till tomorrow. Eva |